...And I am still in Zambia.
Four years
ago I touched down in Zambia to start the “toughest job I’ll ever love” aka
Peace Corps. I had just turned twenty-two years old and had also just graduated
from college and was beyond excited for the adventure of a lifetime. I knew it
was exactly where I was supposed to be at the time, but that doesn’t mean I
wasn’t also a little (or maybe even a lot) scared.
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Me with Kasoko and Mutukangi |
When I left
home people would ask me what I would be doing in my role as a Community Health
Improvement Project Volunteer and I had very few answers to provide because
before leaving Peace Corps really doesn’t tell you much. I knew I’d cover topics
such as HIV, malaria, and nutrition based off the small blurb that was written
about Zambia specifically in our packet included in our invitation. And I also
knew I would live in a grass thatch mud hut with no power, no water, and I’d be
given a bicycle to travel around.
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My host mom and dad and my host brother |
So I began
my journey in Atlanta for a day to learn a whole lot of information about where
I was headed to, get some last minute shots, and have a chance to meet the
other Peace Corps Volunteers in my intake. From there it was a 2 month intense
training period with four hour language lessons, cultural lessons, and
technical training all while leaving with a host family in my very own mud hut.
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My host mom eating the Zambian staple food nshima, and my host sister photo bombing |
Then I was
sent to Misengo village in the Northern Province of Zambia and called it home
for the next two years. I worked all around the community with different groups
of women, men, football teams, school groups to educate about nutrition, prevention
of HIV, malaria, and safe water and sanitation. To say I loved it would be an
understatement. I loved my hut (which to me seemed like a mansion), I loved my
community, and I especially loved the children I interacted with on a daily
basis. Yes at times there were not so fun moments like getting malaria in
February in 2012 and having my house become almost flooded during rainy season
due to the poor thatching of grass in some areas, but I would say my highs
outweighed my lows. And maybe I am just saying that because it has been about 2
years since I lived there and I am romanticizing my time there, but I am
totally fine with that. While life was hard and nothing was really convenient
about fetching my own water, walking over an hour at times to get to the main
road and hitchhike into town, washing my own clothes by hand, or starting my
own fire everyday to make food I learned to do it, or as they say here, I got
used.
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My fabulous hut! |
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In front of the school sign with Mutukangi and my loyal dog, Finn |
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The kids killed this puff adder snake behind my house. |
I met some
of the most amazing, generous people I have ever met in my entire life. Even if
I just stopped by a stranger’s house to get out of a down pour that I found
myself in on a bike ride to or from a group meeting, they would offer me a
stool or imbalala (groundnuts) with no questions asked. Even if to me the
people didn’t have very much they would still share with me. It was a very
humbling experience to say the least and saying goodbye to my village is still
one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.
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After coming from a nearby village they sent me home with plenty of bananas and sugar cane |
Then I moved
to the big city of Kitwe on the Copperbelt for my third-year extension
assignment with Peace Corps. I was assigned to a non-governmental organization
funded by USAID and other private donors called Society for Family Health (SFH)
as a Communications Assistant. My role was basically to educate people and
encourage them to come for HIV testing, family planning services and male circumcision.
It was a fun job that allowed me to travel all over the province and go to
different schools, work places, markets, and everywhere in-between in order to
achieve SFH’s vision of serving under served populations. I was also put up in a
nice 2-bedroom apartment that featured such luxuries as a flushing toilet,
running water, a stove, a fridge, and a real roof!
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With two of my workmates |
I completed
my Peace Corps service in October 2013 and officially became a Returned Peace
Corps Volunteer (RPCV), but I wasn’t exactly ready to return to the US. I
decided to stay longer to wait for my fiance to finish up school the following
year, and thankfully I was able to be hired on by SFH as a full time staff
member so I wouldn’t go hungry, homeless, or bored while I waited for him to
finish. This time I was hired on as a Monitoring and Evaluation Assistant. My
job entails entering in data for our various programs and then creating the
reports. It’s not the most exciting of jobs, but it pays the bills and I am
very grateful for it!
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My desk at SFH as an M&E Assistant |
So that’s
where I am today as I ring in my fourth year. Man just re-capping all of that
has brought back so many memories and I almost forgot about!
I have
learned a lot and also changed in many ways over these last four years. Some
of the changes are positive, but I think some are also negative. For instance I
would say I have become more patient than I was initially because here I have
to live on African time, which to me equals being late for everything and not
caring at all. I still show up on time or even early which is the Skurla way of
life. While I am not perfect in the patience department I also have learned to
go into situations prepared to wait sometimes hours for people or meetings. I don’t enjoy this endless waiting game, but I’ve
gotten used.
One thing I
didn’t really anticipate having to deal with as much as I have is the celebrity
status I have just because I am white. In the village I was known by everyone
and wherever I went I was watched, especially in the beginning, but as time
went on that went down. Actually one of my favorite memories was when my
favorite child, Mutukangi, helped me out by calling someone out on starting at
me. We were at the soccer field and some other kid was just staring at me and
Mutukangi just goes up to the kid and says in local language, “What are you
watching? Ba Emily is not a television!” It was hilarious and I wish he could
handle all those awkward encounters for me.
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My fiance and I at the fish ponds in Miengo |
In Kitwe
this celeb status went to another level which is weird because you would think
living in town where you have access to TV and a lot of different people you
would be used to seeing white people. I mean even the Vice President is white!
But still I am always referred to as mzungu or booga which is just the name for
white person even when they are just passing me on the street. I don’t know
what exactly how they want me to respond. It also goes beyond that as well. It
seems like can’t walk anywhere without being harassed by men who want to call
me baby or sweetie or comment on how I look. And they even do this when I am
with my fiance or worse they insult him for being with me. It even at times
goes so far as people insulting me when I try and ignore them and just do what
I am doing. It’s exhausting and probably one of things I am more looking
forward to about returning to America (besides being reunited with friends and
family) is to just be invisible and not have people watch and comment on every
normal thing that I do. I don’t know how celebrities do it!
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Mutukangi and I going to fetch water |
If all goes
as planned, this will be my last Zambian anniversary. Just how I knew when I
came four years ago this is where I was supposed to be, I know it is time to
go, and maybe the time to go is overdue. Things like spending hours waiting for
a ride on the side of the road were at first an exciting part of the adventure,
but now I just find them an annoying inconvenience. It’s almost like after
having been dealing with the same annoyance for so many years I feel like those
annoyances should have been fixed by now, which is just silly. My fiancé is
constantly reminding me that while I am no longer in the village, I am still a
long way from the ever efficient America.
Since coming
to Zambia I have missed out on a majority of my friends getting married and
starting their grown-up after college lives and I am eager to join them before
everyone starts having babies! And like I said before I am ready to just blend
in. I am ready to go jogging, go for a walk, and go shopping in peace! And I am
ready to be back in the English speaking place where I don’t have to exhaust my
mind trying to keep up with conversations in local language. Basically I am ready to go back home, and I
just hope home is ready for me! And then it’ll be my Zambian fiancĂ©’s turn to
learn to adapt into American culture!
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I hope you'll be seeing us in America in 2015! |